what and how and sombody

What are you doing here? why not do as you expected? and How to do as specified in life? That's your realities you must take an action on.Nobody is able to get an answer for you. You must reply on yourself. Maybe someone is capable of giving you some advice, but not standing for you. You must try to get your positive/negative answers to your question or prolems concerned. Failure is not only Devil,but take some experiences, good or bad. And then your life is deeply true. And you must get try to lean from Failure and Victory.
When walking up or down the street, working just like a common man,I always think of this question. Must learn to accept the fact and should take it. All which happen to you are true. But why and how? First, you should get a direction for them. Goal is very importand and lead you to what you planned before; Second, should take the methods. How to do it is also a matter which will lead you to do with great efficiency and give some direction you depend on to do better.And the last, you must review all your goal and behaviour, what to do and how to do, to get a sum-up about what is wrong or right and decide to update the goals and methods to improve them. The above is alway recycled . In addition, advice from someone should be helpful in life. So must constantly consult person with experiences, as a teacher, about the embarrassments you faced.